Proud To be Muslims

when people said that Muslim's women do not know
how to dress up

or what they so called dress-to-kill,
they are totally wrong.
If U see us wearing XXL shirts with large scarf covering our hair,
it doesn't mean that we are living in the cave-
do not know how to wear jeans,mini skirt and etc.
and it's not like
We don't wear hijab because we don't know how to show off my figure

We still have our body,
We're just not letting everyone see it
And don't feel sorry for us

No one force us to do so and please take note,
we are proud of what we are wearing right now!
our hijab, abaya(robes), or even our niqab
it's symbolize our beautiful way of life..

When we rejecting intermingle between guys and girls-couples
it is not because we are anti-social,
or
when we refuse to do physical contact with guys
(holding hands, hugging etc..)
We have our own solid reason of doing that..
it is because we are protecting of ourselves..
from whom?
the devil of course!;)
We are not that cheap
We don't simply give the 'unauthorized' people especially
guys to see more than they only need to see
and of course, as a woman
we do not want anyone other than our husband
to touch us even for an inch!!
Again, we are not cheap.
We are not like those cheap things that people can touch easily
and throw away when they feel like want to do that
we deserve more than that
and
for your information,
We-Muslim's women are precious
our body are sacred and
we are far more precious than diamond and pearl
But..
the ultimate reason for every single of our action is
to please our Rabb, Allah s.w.t
He taught us in Qur'an on how to behave,
what is the muslims dress code
and that actually make us different from non-muslims
and we are proud to fulfill His commandment
to strive for His jannah!
inshaAllah..
sO my sisters in Islam,
please take care of yourself
cover your aurah
fulfill your obligation in Islam
After all, we are Muslims
aren't U??
this world, is nothing
being praised from people is meaningless
couples-mini skirt-clubbing-5 inch make up
these things won't save U in grave
won't defend U when Munkar and Nankir come to interview us later
But, our deeds- good deeds is the one that is counted
and not to forget, oUr beloved Prophet
Rasulullah s.a.w will be our savior in Mashar
So, during that time, how'd you expect Prophet s.a.w to recognize us
if we are not following his teachings and not
behaving like Muslims now??
w.A.k.e. U.p and be r.E.a.L.i.s.t.I.c now
it is true that
tomorrow never die
we are still young, enjoy this life
and we can repent when we turn to 30s-40s..
But sisters,
nobody knows
nobody can give 100% guarantee
that whether
tomorrow,
we are still breathing in this world or
lying in the grave...

Menegur-Ditegur-Tertegur

'sorang xpakai tdung,sorang lagi pakai tudung tapi lengan pendek!'

terpana-terkejut-termalu-termarah dan mcm2 ter lagi yg kami rasa..
klau diikutkan hati, mahu saja kami menjawab. balas sedas dua. baru pakcik tahu langit tinggi atau rendah! bila diceritakan kpd mak dan ayah, bukan smpati yg diberi tapi ketawa yg xsudah2.hmm..makin panas hati neyh ;) bila kisah ini dikhabarkan kepada nenek di kampung, dengan xbersalahnya mek cakap 'itu tandanya dia sayangkan kakak' what?? suhu hati tiba2 turun dari 100 degree ke 0 degree! nk tergelak terbahak-bahak bila mek ckap camtu..syg apanya mek..itu perli tahap maksimum ar..yg pakcik tu nak sibuk sangat kitorang punya pakaian tu knp? tahu lar anak2 dia tu stok budak2 baik..tapi pendapat dan kata2 tu kitorang pendamkan jer..huhu

Rasanya hampir 4-5 tahun juga peristiwa kena sembur tu berlaku..dan akhirnya, baru sekarang saya faham maksud sayang yang dmaksudkan mek.hmm.yup!bila melihat keadaan mungkar yang berlaku di depan mata,apa lagi kalau melibatkan orang2 yg kita kenal+ sayang, hati dipaut dengan rasa sedih. mahu diluahkan, takut mereka terasa atau menjauhkan diri. kalau di diamkan, rasa bersalah dan salah melekat di hati sebab membiarkan mereka 'hanyut'..

Saranan Nabi s.a.w, tegurlah dengan hikmah..namun, terdetik persoalan di hati, hikmah yg mcm mana yer?kata seorang sahabat, cara teguran kita mestilah sesuai dengan keadaan ataupun personaliti seseorang itu. betul jugak. katakanlah kita nak menegur mat rock, kalau kita pergi terus dekat dia dan buka ayat2 Qur'an, mahu lari lintang-pukang mamat tu..huhu. Lagipun, semua orang kan berbeza. jadi tahap penerimaan seseorang juga berlainan.

Pernah juga seorang kawan mengadu dia diperli oleh sekelompok sisters bertudung labuh hanya kerana selendang yg dipakainya singkat. Di sini, saya bukan nk menyalahkan teguran sisters tersebut. Teguran mereka, ada benarnya. Tapi mungkin cara sisters tersebut menegur/memerli amatlah kurang sesuai. Sudahnya, kata-kata tersebut bukan sahaja tidak meninggalkan kesan positif kepada kawan saya, tetapi perkara sebaliknya berlaku bila dia mula mendapat persepsi negatif terhadap golongan tersebut. :(

Sememangnya, xsalah untuk menegur. Kan dah memang sifat semula jadi manusia yg mudah lupa, alpa dan leka terutama kalau disibukkan dengan urusan duniawi. Cuma teguran yg diberi harus kena pada masa dan tempatnya, susunan kata dan nada suara harus diambil kira agar teguran yg diberi xkan disalah erti sebagai sindiran..Takut2 nanti apa yg cuba disampaikan di salah fahami..Jadi, disini saya ingin berkongsi sedikit panduan menegur yg diperoleh dari blog yg saya baca. Moga membantu..

1. tidak merendahkan ego orang yang ditegur
2. mencari waktu yang tepat
3. memahami kedudukan orang yang ditegur
4. Penegur juga harus bijak mengawal emosi agar kata-kata yg dikeluarkan tidak keterlaluan

Saling tegur-menegur terutamanya dalam perkara yang berkaitan dengan peningkatan diri dan iman amatlah digalakkan. Dalam surah Al-Asr pun Allah ada pesan:

Demi Masa!
Sesungguhnya manusia itu dalam kerugian -
Kecuali orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh, dan mereka pula berpesan-pesan dengan kebenaran serta berpesan-pesan dengan sabar

Kepada yg ditegur, ambillah teguran positif sebagai satu cara untuk membaiki diri. Cuba amalkan sikap mengambil teguran tanpa melihat siapa yang menegur. Maksudnya, walaupun penegur itu datang dari seburuk-buruk manusia pn, tp kalau apa yg dikatakannya itu adalah benar, xsalah kalau kita ambil kata-kata mereka sebagai satu nasihat. Tanpa teguran yg membina, xmustahil diri akan berada di takuk yg lama, terperangkap di dalam tempurung..

Dan ribuan terima kasih diucapkan kepada mereka2 yg menegur saya seikhlas hati, sama ada secara langsung atau x..Walaupun lambat untuk saya berubah, tapi percayalah yang saya sedang cuba untuk menghadam semua teguran yg diberi.. Teruskan menegur saya, dan inshaAllah saya akn lapangkan dada menerima segala nasihat yg diberi.. Bak kata nenek saya, kalau ada yg menegur,itukan tandanya sayang..=))

Take Care of Ur Heart

Hey, have U ever heard that when facing a problem or dilemma, ask Ur heart which path U should take? what is the best choice to pick?
But..
have U ever heard about this quote?
Ikutkan HATI, kita MATI
(follow what Ur heart says and U'll be dead!)
sO, which one is the best way?
for me, when U are in the middle of confuse and don't know which where to go, asking Ur heart is the best way because whether U believe it or not,
Ur heart can feel which option that U should take so that U won't be regret later
But again, how about the quote above? and there are many people said the same thing too..
Are they wrong?
Hehe..those people and the quote are right actually
Why am i saying that?
It is depend on Ur heart itself..
When Ur heart is full with black spots
How can it determine the white area!err good things i mean, or the right choice or maybe the person will face a problem to detect which is the right path for them!..
And when U keep feeding Ur heart with the sins, sooner or later, it will get to use with the bad things either..
That is why when the person misbehaved like cheating for the first time, he will feel unease inside his heart because the Mr. Heart has given the signal to him that he's doing the wrong thing right now..
However, if he keep ignoring the signal and keep cheating to other people, there is no doubt that the signal will light off and he will feel nothing when doing the evil things..
But, if the heart receives a good quality food, it will also give a good respond or in other words, a good or true instinct for U..
It reminds me about our stomach actually, if U give it a healthy and balance meals, it will make Ur body healthier but on the other hand, when U eat junk foods or other unhealthy meals, it will cause Ur body turn upside down! Ur lung become weak, Ur body suffered from diabetes, obesity and so on.. it just the same with our heart.. need a good therapy care in order to maintain it in a better condition..
Thus, always remember what our Beloved s.a.w said and inshaAllah, u'll be safe=)

‘Surely there is in the body a small piece of flesh; if it is good, the whole body is good, and if it is corrupted, the whole body is corrupted, and that is surely the heart’.

Related by Imam Bukhārī in his sahih

And if U happened to 'lost' Ur heart, read the tips below, it might help U;)

Abdullah ibn Masoud (ra) said “Seek your heart in three places (check how it is feeling).
(1) When you are reciting Quran (how is your heart feeling,
(2) State of Dhikr (remembrance of Allah/Prophets/Companions), and
(3) When you are alone.
If you do not feel anything in your heart, then Ask Allah to give you a heart for you have not been given one.

p/s:Purify Ur heart can make Ur life better..InshaAllah and Assalamualaikum^_^

CheCk thiS out.. Are U the OnE?

Assalamualaikum.. Alhamdulillah. Praise to Him, the oft Merciful, and the oft Compassionate-oUr Rabb..Because of His kindness, we are now in the final part of Ramadhan-Last 10 special nights. Hope all of us can meet the night which is like no others, and even better than thousand months! MashaAllah..
But, something struck in my mind.. Do my fasting change myself? do I manage to leave all the negative things? do I manage to move out from the bad to good? not really actually..=( Reciting this ayah, make me realize something. What should I have in order to be the a'bd of Allah which please Him all the time..and through this surah, Allah has given us the guideline to be the one.. Check it out:

• Humble all the time-not possessing the riya' feeling when doing something good or when having something that put U better than other person..a good mark for example?
• Cool and steady when facing those who have uneasy or hatred feelings towards U. and U even reply with a very gentle words when they talking bad about U!
  
• Spend their night with NOT only SLEEPING straight 8-10 hours. Means that, they will wake up in the middle of night and perform tahajjud,taubat.. In other words, those who are willing to sacrifice their comfortable bed+comforter+pillow and wake up just to have a date with HIM.. ;)
• Keep praying to not be included as a Hell citizen.Naudzhubillah
• Not doing syirk, just worshiping HIM alone, not killing any innocent life as He hates it! and of course, not committing any acts of zina. I'm sure intermingling among brothers and sisters + coupling fall in this category..hehe
• Not to forget, those who are wise in their spending which means they neither extravagance nor stingy. In the middle. Only buy what they need, not what their desire want..
• And those who are hear or see things that will bring any benefits to them like bad things or the evil talk, they will go away from it..hmm, it also means that when we heard someone backbiting others, it is better to go away or just remain silent right? It reminds me with one of the hadith that we learnt in Study Circle which said Part of someone's being a good Muslim is his leaving alone that which does not concern him (at-Tirmidhi)..
• When someone warns or tells them about the Ayah from Allah s.w.t, they receive it with an open heart. Not acting like an ignorance..

Having read this reminder from Allah, I've been thinking. Again.
Do I have one of this attributes? at least one? This Ramadhan, I should have posses at least one of it. If I don't start it now, then when? it should be easier since all the deVils or Shayateen has been tied and the only thing that we have to fight is our self, our nafs? is it so hard?hmm..frankly speaking,yup! it ain't easy..
But, in this surah, Allah has mentioned that

• 75. Those will be rewarded with the highest place (in Paradise) because of their patience. Therein they shall be met with greetings and the word of peace and respect.
  

Paradise is the reward? don't U want it? the place where we can do whatever we want..the best place ever. And sure the price of Jannah is not cheap and if we are willing to tie our lunch budget just to have an expensive baju raya, so why are we (including me of course) so lazy to do things that can make us move one step forward to the Jannah?=( and not to forget, Allah also gives us clue that is to be patience.. It is not easy to change to something new, but its worth to try for the sake of Him..

O Allah You are The One Who pardons greatly, and loves to pardon, so pardon me.

and Allah, guide our heart to be close to U.. to do what U love and to hate what U hate.. make uS among those that U loved.. I wanna be somebody.. To U ya Rabb..just for U

Ameen..

REFERENCE;

al-Furqan

SM Abdul Rahman Talib yg terSMART di hati

16-18 haribulan lepas, sya telah pergi ke SMk Abdul Rahman Talib(SMART) atas program Kem Pemantapan Diri di bawah kelab Inspire IIUM. Ktorang telah dberitahu pd mesyuarat sbelum ni yg kata adik2 sekolah kali ini adalah yg the hardcore one. Bermaksud mereka tergolong dalam pelajar2 yg dikategorkan sbgai pelajar yg memerlukan Pemantapan dari segi sahsiah diri..Hmm..

"Kak, kitorang masuk kem nie sbab ktorng budak bermasaalah kan?"
Oops.. xpernah terlintas pun kat fikiran yg adik2 ni akan terus tanya direct cam2..
Patut lar muka msg2 kelat+masam+pahit terlebih rasa bila kami melakukan aktiviti dalam kumpulan. Bila disuruh memperkenalkan diri, mulut msg2 mcm ada batu! Ckp sepatah patah..hehe. Bukannye diorng xkenal satu sama lain..kenal jer sbb semuanya budak asrama tapi bla pergi program yg dipaksa, memang hati tu secara automatik akan berat untuk participate. Yelar, spe suka pergi program atas tiket 'Problematic Students' kan..
Satu yg dapat kami kupas, adik2 ini sangat anti dgn exco asrama-marah mereka bkn sedikit, geram mereka bukan geram2 manja-kalau dibiarkan boleh melarat sampai dendam neh.
Kata mereka, exco2 inilah yg bertngungjawab mnyenaraikan nama mereka utk ke kem ini dan bg mereka, kaki report ini jugalah menjadi dalang utk menconteng minyak gas ke muka mereka dgn mlaporkan perkara2 yg x sepatutnya kepada cikgu! Fuh, memg boleh nmpak ar api tu mnyala2 kat mata adik2 ini di saat menceritakan mengenai exco2 asrama.

Jawapan saya kpd mereka
"Memang org luar boleh cop diri kita macam2- dari sebaik-baik malaikat smpai lar seburuk2 penjenayah.. Tapi bknnya diorang yg boleh menjadikan kita nie mcm yg diorang cakap. Selantang mana pun diorang memburukkan nama kita, menuduh kita macam2, diorang tetap xmampu untuk mengubah diri kita. Yg boleh mencorakkan kamu semua ni pelajar cemerlang er, pelajar bermasaalah er cuma DIRI KAMU sendiri. Jgn kalah dgn Mulut mereka. Diorang bule jer ckap kamu ni kaki ponteng kelas, kaki dtg lambat surau tapi diorang ada er kuasa untuk suruh korang semua buat benda tu?"

Yup, memang saya agak beremosi bila menyentuh soal nie.. Sampai terlanggar etika fasi yg xmembenarkan menggunakan perkataan korang, diorang neh..hehe. Bknnya apa, kadang2, sikap segelintir yg suka sgt dengan tabiat mengecop seseorang nie berdasarkan dari luaran sgt ler mnggeramkan hati dan menyesakkan minda saya! Teringat saya dalam satu kisah di mana Nabi Muhammad s.a.w telah menegur A'isha r.a kerana memanggil salah satu madunya dengan panggilan yg kurang menyenangkan. Kerana cemburu, A'sha telah menggelarkan isteri Rasululullah s.a.w(Xdpt dipastikan nama isteri Baginda s.a.w tersebut) dgn panggilan 'pendek'..
Nabi s.a.w dengan penuh hikmah dan lembut menegur A'sha dengan mengatakan jika perkataan pendek iu boleh dicampak ke dalam laut, nescaya seluruh isi lautan itu tidak boleh digunakan disebabkan buruknya perkataan tersebut! SubhanAllah..
A'sha wanita yg mulia pun telah ditegur dgn kerana telah menggelar seseorang dengan perkataan pendek. Kita yg telah menggelarkan seseorang dgn panggilan yg lebih buruk ni mcm mana pula?

Satu lagi aktiviti yg sempat kami lakukan dengan adik2 ini adalah debat mengenai topik Pembuangan Bayi, Berpunca daripada Siapa-Lelaki atau Perempuan?
Sengaja saya menyuruh kumpulan adik2 lelaki membuat isi ianya berpunca daripada lelaki dan adik2 perempuan akan mempertahankan pendapat mengenai puncanya daripada kaum hawa sendiri.
Dan ini adalah isi dari hati lelaki sendiri kenapa masalah ini berpunca daripada lelaki

• Mudah tergoda dengan perempuan
• X cukup iman
• Mulut lelaki yg manis
• Terpengaruh dengan video2 yg x senonoh
  

Dan ini pula ikhlas dari adik2 perempuan

• Xberpakaian yg menutup aurat
• Suka menggedik dengan lelaki
• X menjaga adab2
  

Sebenarnya banyak jer lagi isi2 dari kedua2 belah pihak nie tapi time ni pulak ler otak ni jamm xdpt nak ingt.>_< Dan part yg paling menarik bagi sya apabila mereka saling memberi nasihat. Lelaki-Perempuan & Perempuan-Lelaki..

Antara pesanan adik lelaki:

• Korang jagalah aurat tue, pakai baju labuh, tutup dada. Pastu, jgnlah nk goda2 laki..
  

Dan utusan dari pihak perempuan:

• Lelaki pon, jangan manis sangt mulut tu.. Masinkan!

Kata2 mereka sempoi & direct, tapi ada benarnya di situ..kan?

Kesimpulanya, walaupun xlama kami bersama, tapi sedikt sebanyak dapat saya baca perangai masing2. Adik2 ini bukannya sukarela mahu terlibat dengan masaalah disiplin, tapi mereka terdidik dengan suasana begitu dan puncanya kebanyakan datang samaada kerana Family Problems or Peer's Influences.. Usaha pihak sekolah untuk mencegah masalah ini daripada peringkat awal tersangatlah dipuji memandangkan masalah sosial yg da semakin parah! Dan yg paling menyedihkan juga kebanyakan yg terlibat dalam masalah ini adalah Muslims.. =(
Program kali ini adalah yg kedua bagi saya dan jika dibandingkan dengan sekolah yg lepas, penatnya lebih terasa dengan program kali ini walaupun adik2 di sekolah dulu lebih ramai dalam kumpulan saya iaitu 11(dan saya harus conduct berseorangan, sedangkan kali ini saya berteman) berbanding kali ini 7 , adik2 sekolah sebelum ini juga lebih mudah untuk cooperate, huhu! Tapi, entah kenapa program kali ini terasa lebih terkesan, mungkin kerana pelajar hardcore lebih dekat dhati?;)

A-T-T-E-N-T-I-O-N

Assalamualaikum..
Here, there's something about Islam that I think U have to know.. =_=
CliCk HeRe!

Positive Or Negative > The Choice is Yours..

Assalamualaikum..
Watch this
Its really interesting




I like the quote from the video..so inspiring! MashaAllah..
Change Ur thought, then U can change Ur world
Then I think, if we can change our world or in other words, ourself-
There's no doubt we can change the world or surrounding! InshaAllah..
I guess, its all about our mindset
At least that's what I understood when watching this video..^_^

The ninja, at first, thought that the flies are the problems
He tries very hard to kill its and actually, by doing that
He lets the flies distracting him
Sounds familiar?
Ok, try this
In life, problems, obstacles are not something that can be avoided
Each of U will be faced it no matter who U are or where U come from
Hey, Allah already said it in His Love Letter Compilation! Look here

Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere (2:155)

E.V.E.R.Y.O.N.E will be tested by our Rabb
But, what makes the difference is the way we handle it and if we handle it improperly
The difficulty could distracting us and of course, will make our head blown up!
Back to the video
Did Mr. Ninja manage to kill the flies?
Nop! U watch the video rite?=)
The flies are keep increasing!
But later, he realized something
If he keeps killing or cutting the flies into the pieces,
It worth him nothing
The flies will keep rising, he will keep fighting and his body and time will pay for it
Because..
His body will lost a lot of energy
And his time will be wasted and he could not focus on his meditation
So, what he should do now is changing his mind setting
Don't see the flies as the annoying one
But as the beautiful petals and the sound of bugging flies is like a streaming of water
So calm and peaceful..
By doing this, he succeed to overcome the distraction

I've learnt something from this..
When facing a difficulty, there's a situation U have to face first
Whether to think positive or negative
Either to be an optimist or a pessimist
It reminds me with the story of half empty or half full glass
If U are the optimist type, U'll see the glass as the half full but
If U are the pessimist one, U'll see it as the half empty glass
So, in other words
For the positive thinkers, the difficulty is a challenge for them
Its also a test for them to rise up to the upper level
Also one way to drag them to move beyond the limit
Get out from the comfort zone
Discover the new potential that sometimes we don't even realize that we able to do that!
Don't be the pessimist one.. Which takes problems as something that can let their spirit down.. Its like tomorrow never comes or that is the end of the life..

Yes, I do know that some people have this questions in their mind

• Why i have been tested in this way? It's just so hard for me..

On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns. (2:286)

See! Allah will give us a test because He knows that we can overcome with it. Its like when U have been given an important task from Ur leader, what would U feel? I'm sure all of us will feel proud, feel like we are important to our leaders because they trust on U. They realize that U have the ability to perform the task better than others. The same thing happened here! When U face a challenge and U feel like want to give up, always remember that Allah knows U can face it. He knows that U can overcome with it. That is why He gives U this test especially for U.. not to the others!

• How I should face it? I'm clueless and helpless =(

O ye who believe! Persevere in patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance; strengthen each other; and fear Allah; that ye may prosper.(3:200)

Nay, seek (Allah's) help with patient perseverance and prayer: It is indeed hard, except to those who bring a lowly spirit (2:45)

Both ayah have emphasized the important to be patient and also turn to Allah as He is the only one can guide us to the right way.. Some people will turn away from Allah when he's in difficulty. They feel like Allah is not there to help them. He loss his hope to Allah. Naudhubillah

There are among men some who serve Allah, as it were, on the verge: if good befalls them, they are, therewith, well content; but if a trial comes to them, they turn on their faces: they lose both this world and the Hereafter: that is loss for all to see! (22:11)

This ayah mentioned about those people who only serve Allah when the good things happened to them and betray Him when a trial comes to them. Allah also said that these kind of people will lose both world and hereafter! Subhanallah.. May Allah protect us from becoming one of this people and let us be the one who will be with Allah through thick and thin.. Ameen

• Why I fail to succeed? I've put all my efforts but still, the result is not like what I want..

...But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not.(2:216)

Again, Allah knows the best. He is Ur Creator, my Creator and our Creator.. Put Ur full faith on Him. It is not impossible that Ur wish will bring harm to U.. who knows? This is not Ur time yet. Take that failure or the challenge as a lesson straightly comes from Allah! Maybe U've done something bad for examples, U forget Him when U're so busy preparing for Ur exam.. or maybe U have hurt Ur parent's hearts or hurting others people feeling with Ur acts! Think about it for a sec...or even better, Allah might want to reward U for Ur patience and that is why He gives U all the hardships.. Come on. Think positive with Allah s.w.t. If U can think positive to other people- His own creations, why can't U think the same way to Our God? Don't forget, He is the MOST COMPASSIONATE one!..Just stick to Allah's way and U'll never stray to wrong path since He'll be there for U.. He will..

My last words here, let's change our mindset. Don't be scared about what will happen in future. How can U touch the sky if U don't fly? How can U know it's a mistake if U don't try? I have watched a TV series which one of the actors said sometimes the big mistake is when U don't give Urself a chance to know whether the choice U made is a mistake or not..Well.. I guess the point is clear there. And also, how U're going to change the world if U failed to change Ur own world due the failure to change Ur own thought?